Community guidelines

This is a private, upscale dating community. Every member — Attractive members and Successful members alike — is expected to treat the people they meet here with the same respect they'd want in return. These guidelines apply to your profile, your messages, and every interaction on the site.

Be honest

Use your own recent photos, your real age, and an accurate picture of who you are and what you're looking for. Impersonating someone else, exaggerating your circumstances, or misrepresenting your intentions is not allowed and may result in a permanent ban.

This is a dating site, not a marketplace

We connect people for dating and relationships — nothing transactional or commercial. Do not use your profile, your messages, or the private album to advertise, solicit, or arrange payment for meeting, companionship, or anything else. Requests for deposits, booking fees, or "verification" payments of any kind are not allowed anywhere on the site.

No contact details in profiles

Phone numbers, email addresses, social handles, and links to other sites or apps aren't allowed in your heading, About, or Looking for text — see our safety page for why. Get to know someone here first; you can always share contact details privately once you're comfortable.

No harassment

Treat every member with courtesy, even if a conversation doesn't go anywhere. Repeated unwanted contact, threats, hate speech, or degrading language toward anyone — on or off the platform — is not tolerated. If someone stops responding, let it be.

Photos and content

Every photo must be your own, recent, and clearly show you — see our photo guidelines for the specifics. No nudity, no explicit content, and nothing depicting anyone other than yourself.

Reporting a problem

Every profile and message has a Report option. If someone breaks these guidelines, or you believe someone is underage or being trafficked, report it right away — those reports go to the top of our moderation queue. You can also block anyone at any time; see Safety for more.

Breaking these guidelines can result in a warning, message removal, a temporary restriction, or a permanent ban, at our discretion. Our full Terms govern your use of the site.